Fourteen year old boys. What a concept! The people that say that women are hard to understand, clearly never had a fourteen year old son--or they were a fourteen year old son! Fourteen year old sons don't want to be like older siblings, unless that sibling is getting out of school, is having friends over, is enjoying a coveted food item, or is holding the one and only television remote. Aargh! When parents say they need a guide for their babies, forget it, babies are easy. How about getting a guide for a fourteen year old teenage male?